We all know what it’s like to get comfortable in your relationship and…. kind of let things slip.
Having kids is a major factor for many women and it can feel quite hard to bring yourself back to being that sexy woman that your husband or partner fell in love with at the very beginning.
Here I give 5 of my top tips for all of the sexy women out there that want to get their sexy back and recapture their man’s attention. Hopefully doing all these things will leave you feeling empowered (incredibly horny) and above all, like that super sexy woman your husband fell in love with.
1. Treat yourself to some sexy underwear
Men are very visual. They love to see a woman dressed up and looking sexy, especially a woman that they love. It shows him that you still want to make and effort for him which to a man is a big compliment. Also your new ‘sexy look’ will linger in his thoughts far beyond the passionate time you share together at the time. Not only will this be great for him but it will also make you feel and look like a powerful sexy woman too. Go out with a girlfriend and try on some sexy outfits or lingerie. (FUN) Pick something that flatters your figure and highlights all your sexy assets.
2. Send him horny texts and pictures when he’s at work
Men love this. It gives them such great incentive to hurry home as well. Be the cheeky sexy woman you were at the beginning and send him provocative, rude messages when he’s at work. Tell him you’re extremely horny and can’t wait to feel him inside you. Stand in front of a mirror exposing his favourite piece of flesh and send it to him. Text or pic – the naughtier, the better!
3. Have sex out of the house
Any form of routine gets predictable and boring. If you and your hubby/ partner can’t remember the last time you had sex anywhere other than in your own home, now’s the time to change it. Especially as the weather is much nicer. Plan somewhere nice to go…. A hotel…. A spa…. A park even….anywhere that is not home and jump on him when he’s least expecting it. Men also love a woman that initiates sex. So be bold, brave and creative.
4. Take control in the bedroom
The best way to do this is to actually plan out what you want to do before you do it. Imagine he’s just got home from work, or just jumped out of the shower. What will you do next? Sit him down and demand that he watches you play with yourself before he’s allowed to get involved? Or drop to your knees and give him and oral treat? The ideas are endless but whatever you choose to do, be that sexy woman he loves so much and do ‘your thing’ with authority. It’s a huge turn on for men!
5. Tell him one of your inner most fantasies and work together to live it out
So many of us have regular fantasies but are afraid to actually tell our partners about them. It comes mostly from fear of what they will think. Sharing and living out fantasies is such a great way to bring the spice back and let your partner into your sexy thoughts. It can be a thrilling and enlightening experience for you both and will definitely remind him of how lucky he is to have such a sexy woman.
All my love,
Rach xx
