There are many ways of creating intimacy and a stronger connection during sex.
But here’s just one simple and easy-to-do sex tip that you can try today!
When having sex take some time out to just feel each other. I mean really enjoying the feeling of being inside each other. Connecting completely with your vagina and penis and creating intimacy by kissing, touching and stroking. Lay still in missionary with either one of you on top. Choose whether to be completely motionless or just rock very slightly. In fact try both ways and see which way you prefer.
During sex the penetration feels incredible of course but sometimes we focus so much on the ‘banging’ part of sex that we forget the intimacy that comes with it. It feels sensational for a woman to feel her erect partner inside her and all of a sudden when you stop the thrusting action you both suddenly become more aware of how wonderful it feels to just be quite still.
You can use this time to both contract your muscles down below which not only feels great but it also strengthens both of your pelvic floor muscles. When you stop focusing on the thrusting you become much more conscious of all of your other senses too.
I’m not asking you to lie down for 20 minutes motionless here folks! But every once in a while during sex, just stop for a couple of minutes at a time and spend some time kissing and touching each other. Trust me, it feels wonderful. It will heighten your other senses and is very likely that it will prolong sex because the penetration and friction is what causes many men to ejaculate.
So try some ‘motionless sex’ from time to time. Creating intimacy and a stronger connection during love making will bring you closer together in general and open up new ways of satisfing each other. .