Oral sex is such a wonderful experience – to receive and to give. So it never surprises me that I get asked this question a lot from both men and women. In my Master Classes and 1:1 coaching sessions I get to demonstrate each technique in person. I teach a series of mind blowing masturbation and oral sex techniques which is always lots of fun. But as this is this is a written piece – here are three tips I can give you.
- Feel it rather than thinking about it. So many people spend too much time thinking about what they are doing instead of feeling what they are doing. Close your eyes and imagine you can feel what you are doing to your partner. How does it feel to you? Go with what feels right and try to experiment with different techniques rather than sticking to one thing.
- Ask questions. The only way you will know if your partner is really enjoying what you are doing is if you ask them. Whether you ask them during or after is your choice but don’t be afraid to ask. Just asking the question opens up the discussion process and you may be surprised at what you find out when you ask. It gives your partner the chance to tell you which bits they liked and which bits they weren’t so hot on.
- Practice as much as you can. It’s the best way to learn and build your confidence. It’s also lots of fun for your partner. When we feel nervous or anxious about something some people try their best to avoid the thing that makes them nervous. Try not to do that here. Confront your fear with the positive mind-set that the more you do it the better you will become.
Being able to give incredible oral sex is a wonderful skill to have. The satisfaction of knowing you can bring your partner to climax with just your mouth is a brilliant feeling. The fact that you are interested in how to do it better makes me very happy too. I love open minded people that are willing to learn, so props to you!
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All my love,