Hi, I have a weird fetish……
that I’m really embarrassed about and I just want it to go away. I get really turned on by big knickers, the bigger and less attractive, the better. Little thongs and cute lacey or frilly knickers do nothing for me. I wish they did and I didn’t feel like this. I’m a young man and I don’t have a girlfriend. I’m worried that I won’t be able to get an erection if I see a woman in normal underwear. How can I make this stupid fetish go away?
Many people that discover they have a fetish feel a bit ‘weird’ or ‘different’ at first and I do understand that you may feel worried. But the more you worry the worse and more anxious you will become. The truth is most of the people in this world have undercover thoughts and feeling that they would love to be able to express but just don’t have the confidence. I always say to anyone coming to me with queries about their fetish, as long as you’re not hurting anyone I think you should embrace it.
Have you ever imagined being with a woman that loves you so much that she would happily wear anything you’d like her to wear? Because that is just as possible. Instead of spending all your time worrying about what you don’t want, start to focus all your time and energy on what you do want. Ultimately the goal would be to find someone that you love, trust and can be yourself with. Try to embrace your fetish and be proud that you’re different. For all you know your future partner may just have a fetish of her own!
Our own sexuality is what makes us all different and unique. Try not to waste any more time wishing you could fit into the ‘norm’. If we all liked the same things, this world would be a very boring and predictable place.
Hope this helps and I wish you all the best,