I have really long labia. Is that normal?
Hi, I recently saw my best friend’s bits after we had both had our bikini lines waxed. It’s made me really self-conscious about my labia as they hang down and look like flaps. You can see them when I’m just standing upright where as my best friends labia were completely different and couldn’t be seen at all. Am I normal and what do men prefer?
Jan – Kent.
Yes you are absolutely normal. The beauty of vaginas is they all come in different shapes and sizes. There is no right or wrong way of looking down below. I used to do waxing when I left college and my forte was bikini lines. I actually saw many more women with longer labia than with shorter/ smaller ones. Google labia and you’ll see a variety of different shapes and sizes which will hopefully put your mind at rest. If you watch porn also, you’ll notice many porn stars with long labia’s too. They confidently show off their lady parts and the men in the scene and watching never get put off.
Any man that is lucky enough to see and touch your most precious parts would hopefully never be as shallow to be put off you because of this. And if he is, he isn’t worth your time! Try to enjoy all the sensations your labia give you rather than focus on what they look like. Sometimes even I get a little insecure about a body part I would like to improve on. So I say to myself “I am imperfectly perfect” Try saying this to yourself any time you have a negative or disappointed feeling about your body. Trust me, it really helps counteract that negative thought. I hope this has helped Jan.
All the best,