Lesbian fantasies- who hasn’t right?
No one can be sure of the exact percentage of straight women that have experienced (or regularly experience) lesbian fantasies but it’s safe to say that a huge amount of the population have. Whether you felt strange feelings towards a best friend whilst discovering who you were as a teenager or whether you’ve experienced them during your adult years and had a full on girl crush. Many of us can relate, one way or another.
I may be a little biased being a bisexual woman myself but women are so sexy. Their feminine features, soft skin and maternal curves. Not only are women great to look at but I think lesbian fantasies stem from the connection women have to other women. We are so strong and resourceful, we share the life transforming experience of pregnancy and childbirth. We can relate to each other and have an inexplicable understanding of other women’s thought patterns, even if you don’t agree with what they are thinking.
If ever you were wondering if these strange urges and lesbian fantasies are normal let me reassure you straight way- they are. Even if you have lesbian fantasies, it doesn’t necessarily mean you are a lesbian or even bi-sexual. You may just get turned on by those thoughts. Still, absolutely natural. I always say to my clients, never suppress your sexuality. As long as you are not harming others or yourself, you have a right to indulge and explore your own sexuality. It is one of the great gifts we have in life. To enjoy our senses and titillate them where we can. It makes us feel alive.
There are many ways you can dabble in lesbianism without actually taking that leap. A great place to start would be to read some lesbian erotica. It’s the perfect way to explore your sexuality and discover more about yourself in a safe and comfortable environment. Xcite books have the biggest and best range of erotic fiction in the UK. You can find out more about what two women actually do together and read the words off the page as though you are there and feeling every kiss and touch yourself. It is very erotic. This may also help you work out if you want to actually act upon your fantasies or if you’d rather keep them buzzing safely around in your head.
Whatever you choose to do, I say enjoy it. Even if being with another woman has never crossed your mind, why not pick up some lesbian erotica and see if it takes your fancy. After all, you’ll never know unless you try.
All My love