Let me explain why it’s so important for you to answer quickly when faced with a ‘woman question’
It is inevitable that at some point in your relationship your woman is going to ask you questions or make statements that you will probably find very annoying and pointless. Sorry but let’s face it, it’s going happen. Statements like:
‘Errgh I look awful today’ or
‘Maan I really need to lose weight. I look like a hippo in this dress’.
Or the dreaded and typical question ‘Do I look fat in this?’
This is where you need to learn the art of ANSWERING QUICKLY! If you are in the vicinity and hear her say anything like that jump straight in. Have your answers all set up and ready in your head.
‘Baby you look beautiful to me every day’
‘You Fat!? Don’t be ridiculous. I love you just the way you are!’
‘Of course you don’t look fat! You are beautiful inside and out!’
Anything along those lines will get an ‘awwww, thank you baby’. With the possibility of sexual favours that night! If that’s not incentive for ya, I don’t know what is.
I know you might find this very boring but the reasons women do this because they want some reassurance from you. It’s such a lovely feeling to know that your man thinks you are beautiful, sexy and attractive to him. Compliments from friends, family and random guys on the street give you a little boost but not as much as when your man compliments you. It’s unfortunate but a fact that all humans have complexes and experience times of self-doubt, women just express them more so listen out for the those little statements or questions where you need to answer QUICKLY. A second or two of hesitation will put her in a crappy mood and give you unnecessary grief.
Also men, I know I’m telling you to be aware and boost your partner up if she has a moment of self-doubt but if your woman does that all the time and is continuously needy and unconfident. You may want to re think your partner choice. It may sound harsh but it’s boring having to prop someone up all the time.
All my love,