We’ve all heard the saying ‘cock tease’ right?
Well men, you should aim to be a pussy tease too!
You may be surprised to know that women actually like a challenge just as much as men. If you find that your woman is becoming less interested in sex it may be because she never has to work for it. It may also be because she knows what to expect and your moves have become predictable.
Do you always go in for a fondle and if she ‘accepts’ your advances you then follow on with full blown sex? Sorry to burst your bubble but that can get quite boring for us women. We like to be teased. We like it when you keep us on our toes. We like it when you give a little and then back off leaving us gagging for more. To us that is foreplay, teasing and provoking sexually will build up excitement and passion so when you do have sex, it will be far more intense.
It also will make your woman work harder. It will encourage her to instigate sex more as she will know it’s not always on offer and available whenever she wants it. Your cheeky little fondles and teases (backing off completely after) will turn her on and make her want to come to you instead of it always being the other way round.
I advise you to find lots of ways to tease your woman when she is least expecting it. When she’s doing the washing up, slide your hands round her waste and hips pulling her slowly and firmly into you. Then glide one hand between her legs using all of your palm and forearm, still holding her hip securely with the other hand. Use long, slow, sliding motions. Do this for approx. 2 minutes. Finish up with some circular motions around her labia trying to push that middle finger slightly deeper as to find her clitoris. Only do this for 1-2 minutes. Then give her a kiss on her neck and walk away.
Another great tease to try is when she is innocently watching TV on the sofa. Calmly go and sit on the floor in front of her. Go to remove any clothing that’s covering her naughty bits. You want full access here. If she asks you what the hell you’re doing calmly put your finger over your lips in the ‘shhh’ action and tell her to relax. You just want to do something. Part her legs and very gently slide the tip of your tongue up either side of her vagina. Do this repetitively (bottom to top) for approx. 2 minutes. Make sure your fingers are spread open and your hands are lightly gripping her inner thighs the whole time. You can lightly squeeze in bursts. Then take your whole tongue and flatten it out applying more pressure this time. You’re now going to go directly up the middle of her vagina so your tongue teases over her clitoris. Do this for a further 2 minutes. You can finish up by circling your tongue around her clitoris as your lips completely engulf her vagina and use your mouth to lightly suck. When you are ‘finished’ (the whole tease should go on no longer than 5 minutes!) kiss her clitoris delicately, tell her she tastes delicious and then leave the room.
There are hundreds of ways you can tease your woman like this so be creative and start teasing! She will probably be really shocked that you are not pestering her sex or trying to ‘follow through’ every single time you get an erection. This should really turn her on and will probably make her feel far more attracted to you.
All my love,